i've been thinking...

• odds are when you need someone the most, they won't be there
• no matter how in love you think you are, something/someone will come along and/or happen to make you question it
• boys tell the sweetest lies, friends tell the bitter truth
• you might not be able to pick your family, but you can kick their ass to the curb
• truth is: you're going to get hurt, heartbroken, used, abused, taken for granted, and of course, loved.. take it all as it comes, embrace it, then breathe deep and move the fuck on
• it's ok to feel worthless, because the day will come when you feel invincible
• people do come AND go, let them GO
• don't convince yourself you need someone, you don't need anyone but you
• if someone can't be there for you when you need them, then really, why did you need them to begin with?
• find yourself, before seeking another
• love IS a rarity, overrated, and a falacy, but it's also amazing and addictive
• when you're right, don't back down - when you're wrong, smile
• it's ok to be cranky, every day, even on holidays, and no, you don't need to provide someone with an explanation
• it's ok to cry, even if it's for no reason what-so-ever
• tell someone you miss them, even if they've only been gone a few moments, you honestly don't know when you'll see them again
• sometimes, words aren't enough